Tape & Wrap

Mummification is fun, easy and cheap. It renders the Sub powerless and immobile, allowing him to slip out of reality for a while.

Rope

Kinbaku, or shibari, is a Japanese form of bondage in which a person is tied up with rope in an artistic and erotic manner

Restraints

If you want to experiment with (soft) bondage and cuffs, here you will find (soft) handcuffs and some more advanced products for your next step.

Straitjackets

A straitjacket was used in psychiatry in the past. It is a back-closing jacket with long sleeves, which restrains restless patients in their movements.

Collars

is given by the dominant to the submissive when the dominant accepts the submissive as a partner, also used as a sign of submission.

Spreaderbars

Take total control of your partner's body and pleasure. Spreader bars are ideal for kinky dominance play, as they allow you to hold your partner's legs or arms spread apart to do whatever you want to their body.

BDSM Specials

The finishing touch of your bondage play!

What is BDSM?

Soft BDSM can best be described as the lighter version of BDSM. It is the abbreviation for bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism. For some, this includes things you may have seen in the Fifty Shades of Grey movies. It is exactly this universe that Christian Grey and Anastasia play in, with Christian playing the dominant role and Anastasia the submissive. This movie has been a big influence in getting more people to explore the world of sex toys, and even taking away some of the taboo around BDSM. It doesn’t have to be extreme to be fun, you can play on many different levels. That is also what this category is about: bondage.

Soft BDSM is not as rough as some types of BDSM. This is a milder form of dominance, where you can push boundaries at a slow pace that suits your speed. Everything from light spanks, to soft caresses with tickling feathers can be enough to send you into a new world of pleasure. You just have to find out what works best for you and what turns you on the most. Then you are ready forbondagefor beginners .

Get in the mood before you do bondage

It’s perfectly normal to be a little nervous before you start exploringsoft bondage. Everyone can be nervous when trying new things. That’s why it’s important to get in the right frame of mind before you dive into the vast universe of new and exciting projects. Especially within this theme, it’s important to be ready and not rush things.

Make sure to discuss your boundaries with your partner before you start soft bondage. You can never be sure that your boundaries are the same, that’s why it’s important to agree in advance on what is and isn’t okay. Since a large part of softbondageplay is about letting go of your control, it may be a good idea to discuss a “safeword” that can be used if the fun goes too far for one person. Choose a word that won’t come up naturally during the fun, to ensure that there is no confusion down the road. Knowing that there is a stop button that you can use makes it easier to relax and enjoybondageto the fullest.

Play with BDSM toys

If you are completely new to BDSM , toys, the best advice we can give you is: experiment and test as you go along to find out what suits your needs best. Take your time and explore the many different BDSM (soft) toys we offer in our webshop. Many different products may be of interest, such as a seductive blindfold, or a naughty set of handcuffs. As long as all parties involved are okay with it, there is nothing stopping you from trying all kinds of toys. It is also okay to step a little outside your comfort zone and challenge your own imagination. This can lead to incredibly exciting experiences that introduce you to a whole new world of pleasure that you have yet to discover. As long as the safe word is observed, there is no reason to hold back from experimenting and trying new things.

If you find it difficult to choose between the large selection BDSM toys that you can find here at BondageLife , you are always more than welcome to contact our customer service for guidance. We are here to help you with anything you need and ensure you get the best experience possible.